About Me

Mistress Elena Lisbon Dominatrix

My name is Elena, and I am a lifestyle and professional dominatrix based in Lisbon, Portugal.

BDSM for me is a philosophy, an artistic expression, a practice that is empowering for me and healing for my play partners.

I’ve been into a kinky world almost 4 years, actively learning and practicing regularly. I do professional sessions because I love what I am doing. Being rewarded for my skills allows me to invest more into my education, toys, fetish wear.

This also means I am very selective in who I am playing with.

Personal statistics:

  • Age: 40
  • Height: 169cm (5’7”)
  • Weight: 59kg (130 lbs)
  • Clothing size: S (EU36 / UK8 / US4)
  • Lingerie: 75C (34C)
  • Shoe size: 39 (8)
  • Ethnicity: Eastern European
  • Language: Sessions are only performed in English.

My Interests

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My main focus during sessions is psychological domination, I know what to say, how to say, and when to say it the way that will blow your mind and quickly bring you into a submissive space.

I am interested in a wide range of activities, and with constant training my repertoire is increasing! Below are practices that I love most. You can read more about my sessions here >>

❤️ Bondage – shibari/kinbaku, cuffs, chains, plastic wrap mummification, partial suspension (with ropes, cuffs, spreader bar, CBT bondage)
I’m in love with creative predicaments and torture ropes! Still studying this art.

❤️ Tease&Denial – chastity, edging, orgasm control, tie & tease, CFNM
There is nothing more powerful than teasing you and never giving what you want. 

❤️ Impact Play – flogging (single handed and double-handed Florentine style), slapping, spanking, caning, paddling, whipping  (single tail, cat o’ nine tail), bastinado
I am not an extreme sadist but love to see you suffering for me, and my floggers will bring you into a meditative state of mind.

❤️ Sensations  – temperature/wax play, pinwheels, sensual cock, balls & nipples torture, electroplay (violet wand, tens unit), sensory play, sensory deprivation, mummification, light breath play (smothering, clothed facesitting, light suffocation)
Each session should bring you emotions unreachable in your daily life. This is a sweet and sensual surrender, combining pain and pleasure.

❤️ Fetish & Worship – feet worship, stockings/boots/shoes fetish, teasing with my feet, trampling, leather fetish, footing
Kneel to my feet and worship your Goddess, this is all you deserve.

❤️ Feminisation – cross-dressing, forced feminization, sissification & sissy training, forced-bi
I do not feminize to humiliate, I love to reveal your beautiful feminine side, to be a Goddess creating your new birth, revealing your hidden desire to match my Supremacy

❤️ Role Play – pet play, medical play (only fetish!), teacher/student, interrogation/prisoner, boss/employee etc.
We all are playing roles in our life, and I will give you the opportunity to be whoever you want 

❤️ Anal play – strapon/pegging, anal plugs, anal bondage hooks, anal training, fisting, footing
This is not my favourite activity but I am absolutely skilled and knowledgable to make your anal play experience pleasant & healthy.

My Limits

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Soft Limits

These are activities that I potentially can do in future or am doing only with selected subs.

❓ Heavy Humiliation – extreme degradation, insults, play harassment, spitting, toilet/dirt
While I enjoy erotic humiliation, I do not do extremes! I respect my pets and love to see them developing under my Power!

❓ Blood & Medical – blood play, medical play, needles, piercing, scarification, suturing, sounding, saline injections
These are activities I am studying but not performing at pro sessions.

Hard Limits

These are activities that I NEVER do and WILL NEVER do in future.

❌ Showers – golden, brown, Roman, ruby etc.

❌ Switching – I am not submissive and will never be.

❌ Sex – any type of sexual activities, including handjobs!
I am not providing escort services, I do not make sessions nude or in lingerie, and I do not allow subs to touch any parts of my body except my feet or hands. I can touch you wherever I want and do whatever I want within your limits, but I am not doing any type of sensual massage, ‘happy end’ etc. I can incorporate your own self-satisfaction in the play, but my involvement in it will be minimal.

❌ Intoxication, drugs, smoking – I do not allow nor give any drugs & substances. I do not smoke and do not do smoking fetish sessions.

Do not insult me by asking for intimate worship, blowjobs or sex. The answer will ALWAYS be NO

My Education

I am convinced that a good Domme should keep studying all the time! A Domme can’t offer pro services without education, ‘natural dominance’ is not enough!

Good femdom training means safety for a submissive (both physical and mental) & his best possible emotions received during the session. Alongside with endless workshops and courses (offline and online) I took and books I read, I have mentors that help me on a regular basis to become a better Domme.

Mistress Damiana Chi

My Mentor

Mistress Damiana Chi, Ph.D. (Los Angeles, USA) is a well known Professional Dominatrix, BDSM Sexologist and  FemDom Educator. She has been a full-time pro for over 20 years.  She holds a Ph.D. in clinical psychology, a M.A. in counseling psychology, B.A. in behavioral sciences, and is a certified sexologist, specializing in kink-knowledgeable life coaching.

Since January 2021 I am taking her 6-month Ultimate Dominatrix Course, a psychologically-based, comprehensive training and certification program in the art of Female Domination. This is the only program in the world of this level and it will give me the opportunity to become a Certified Dominatrix, the only one in Portugal.

With regular online lectures, consultations, personal training by Damiana and her team, online live domination excersises I get a valuable experience unreachable for any other domme in Europe. All the new knowledge I am getting are immediately applied to my sessions.

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