About Me

Mistress Elena Lisbon Dominatrix

My name is Elena, and I am a lifestyle and professional dominatrix based in Lisbon, Portugal. I’m the only classically trained & certified dominatrix in Portugal.

BDSM for me is a philosophy, an artistic expression, a practice that is empowering for me and healing for my play partners.

I’ve been into a kinky world almost 6 years, actively learning and practicing regularly. I do professional sessions because I love what I am doing. Being rewarded for my skills allows me to invest more into my education, toys, fetish wear.

This also means I am very selective in who I am playing with.

Personal statistics:

  • Age: 41
  • Height: 169cm (5’7”)
  • Weight: 59kg (130 lbs)
  • Clothing size: S (EU36 / UK8 / US4)
  • Lingerie: 75C (34C)
  • Shoe size: 39 (8)
  • Language: Sessions are only performed in English.

My Interests

My main focus during sessions is psychological domination, I know what to say, how to say, and when to say it the way that will blow your mind and quickly bring you into a submissive space.

I am interested in a wide range of activities, and with constant training my repertoire is increasing! Below are practices that I love most. You can read more about my sessions here >>

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❤️ Psychological Domination – submissive/slave training, verbal commands, verbal/physical humiliation, human furniture, service/maid training, total power exchange, SPH, CEI

❤️ Bondage – shibari/kinbaku, partial suspension (with ropes), plastic wrap/leather bag mummification, leather belts/sleeves/cuffs/masks, spreader bars, CBT bondage, imprisonment in my cage. Photos from sessions >>

❤️ Tease & Denial – tie & tease, CFNM, erotic humiliation,  edging, orgasm control, chastity, JOI, seducing & teasing as a basis of domination.

❤️ Impact Play – flogging (single handed and double-handed Florentine style), slapping, spanking, caning, paddling, whipping  (single tail, cat o’ nine tail), bastinado
I have been very well trained to work with floggers & whips, and have the biggest collection of highest-qualty (not Chinese!) leather impact play toys in Portugal.

❤️ Sensations  – temperature/wax play, pinwheels, CBT (cock & balls torture, ball-busting), nipples torture, electroplay (violet wand, tens units, with extensive collection of electrodes), sensory play/deprivation, mummification, light breath play (smothering, clothed facesitting, light suffocation, gas mask)

❤️ Fetish & Worship – feet worship, stockings/nylon/boots/shoes fetish, teasing with my feet, trampling, footing; leather/latex/PVC fetish
I own the biggest latex & leather outfit & footwear collection in Lisbon. Photos from sessions >>

❤️ Feminisation – cross-dressing, forced feminization, sissification & sissy training, forced-bi fantasy
I own a special room for transformation in my dungeon, wth a huge collection of outfits, shoes, wigs, make-up etc. Photos from sessions >>

❤️ Role Play – pet play, teacher/student, boss/employee, interrogation/prisoner, therapist/patient, pony play, age play etc.

❤️ Medical Play – medical fetish, sounding, needles, electricity, breath play with a gas mask, examinations, all kind of medical role plays. Photos from sessions >>
I have a well equipped medical room with all the necessary desinfection & sterilization equipment, materials, high quality sounds, metal toys. A male (M size) rubber catsuit is available for latex fetishists.

Double/Triple Domme /Fem Sub Sessions – I cooperate with several baby dommes (dommes in training), as well as a professional female submissive, invited to sessions by request & extra tribute.

Couples/Women – I love to play with couples, with you being in different roles (F domme+ M submissive; both submissives; M dom + F submissive), I teach and mentor. Women are absolutely welcome for sessioning!

Anal Play – strapon/pegging, anal plugs, anal bondage hooks, anal training, fisting, footing, F-machine

Urine Play – urinotherapy, urine inhalations via a gas mask
That’s the only type of a toilet play that I offer (consensually only!) – consume or inhale my divine DNA

Ethical Findom / Money Kink – gifts, shopping encounters, debt contracts, cash meets, consensual blackmailing, paying bills, card/bank account control, financial planning
Doing it ethically means consensually, within your financial limits, & far not always based on humiliation. The real domme will not milk you until you are broke, she will give you emotions you need wthin your budget and will not force you into an addiction. 

My Limits

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❌ Heavy Humiliation – extreme degradation, insults, play harassment, spitting, toilet/dirt, farting, race play

❌ Heavy Medical Play – blood play, piercing, scarification, suturing, saline injections, heavy breath play

❌ Full Rope Suspensions – I only offer half-suspensions at my pro sessions

❌ Showers – golden, brown, Roman, ruby etc.

❌ Switching – I am not submissive and will never be.

❌ Sex & Intimate Worship – any type of sexual activities, including handjobs!

I am not a fetish escort, I am a real dominatrix! I do not make sessions nude or in lingerie, and I do not allow subs to touch any parts of my body except my feet or hands (I may allow ass worship/facesitting in clothes, and armpit/arms worship for fetishists). I can touch you wherever I want and do whatever I want within your limits, but I am not doing any type of profound sensual massage, ‘happy end’ with hands or feet etc. I usually use vibrators, vibrating machines & electrostimulation for excitement, and/or incorporate your own self-satisfaction in the play under my control.

❌ Intoxication, drugs, smoking – I do not allow nor give any drugs & substances (including poppers). I do not smoke and do not offer smoking fetish sessions.

Do not insult me by asking for intimate worship, blowjobs or sex. The answer will ALWAYS be NO

My Education

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I am convinced that a good Domme should keep studying all the time! A Domme can’t offer pro services without education, ‘natural dominance’ is not enough!

Good femdom training means safety for a submissive (both physical and mental) & his best possible emotions received during the session. Alongside with endless workshops and courses (offline and online) I took and books I read, I have a mentor that helps me on a regular basis to become a better Domme, and I am an officially certified Dominatrix!

Mistress Damiana Chi

My Mentor

Mistress Damiana Chi, Ph.D. (Los Angeles, USA) is a well known Professional Dominatrix, BDSM Sexologist and  FemDom Educator. She has been a full-time pro for over 20 years.  She holds a Ph.D. in clinical psychology, a M.A. in counseling psychology, B.A. in behavioral sciences, and is a certified sexologist, specializing in kink-knowledgeable life coaching.

In September 2021 I graduated from her 6-month Ultimate Dominatrix Course, a psychologically-based, comprehensive training and certification program in the art of Female Domination. I got a diploma of a Certified Dominatrix, the only one in Portugal.

With regular online lectures, consultations, personal training by Damiana and her team, online live domination excersises I got a valuable experience unreachable for any other domme in Portugal. All the knowledge I got there are fully used in my sessions.

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